Tuesday, February 28, 2006

Happy Anniversary Lydia

March 1st marks the fourth anniversary of my marriage to Lydia. In 1997 I met a young lady at Calvin College who became a real buddy to me. Lydia moved from being a buddy with whom I would hang-out and share laughter, to being my best friend.

As I watched Lydia grow in her love for Christ and the Word of God I grew to love her more and more as a person and as a Christian sister. Many people saw something in the way that we interacted that we did not even see. God had planted a seed deep within our affections that began to take root and to bud. Lydia and I had come to the realization that what we were looking for in a lifetime partner and friend was right before our eyes.
Lydia and I were engaged for five months and we were able to plan a fantastic wedding that was glorifying to God and edifying for those that were in attendance.
I look forward to spending the rest of my life with my beloved wife and I look forward to seeing what God has in store for us as he conforms us more and more into the image of his beloved son, Jesus Christ.
Psalm 128 A Song of degrees.

Blessed is every one that feareth the LORD; that walketh in his ways. For thou shalt eat the labour of thine hands: happy shalt thou be, and it shall be wail with thee. Thy wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like olive plants round about thy table. Behold, that thus shall the man be blessed that feareth the LORD. The LORD shall bless thee out of Zion: and thou shalt see the good of Jerusalem all the days of thy life. Yea, thou shalt see thy children's children, and peace upon Israel.

Saturday, February 25, 2006

We have discovered a new (to us) toy store in Grand Rapids that has a lot of great toys. It carries the Playmobile 123 as well as a lot of Haba German toys. The wood toys that so many of you moms and dads are looking for are available there as well.

We found most of the prices to be cheaper than Learning Express.
Creative Learning Toys is on East Paris Avenue about 15 minutes from Union Avenue. It is really worth checking out.

What great toy stores do you like?

Thursday, February 23, 2006

Earl Grey and Friends

Anna and Owen hosted a tea party for Lydia. The pictures are great. I hope that you enjoy:
Owen does not seem to enjoy his tea. Maybe he is one of those "I need sugar in my tea" kind of guys. Anna really enjoyed learning how to hold a tea cup after the manner of Emily Post. She does not quite understand that the pinky finger that is straight needs to be on the same hand as the cup that you are holding!
Lydia enjoyed the tea. Lydia always enjoys a great cup of tea. Especially when it is French Pressed. Yummy.
Lydia wants a little bit more cream for her tea. (Who uses cream in tea?)
Lydia demonstrates the proper way in which the cup and saucer are held.
Anna pours another round.
Owen enjoys chewing on the cup as much as he enjoys the contents.
Anna spills and the tea onto the carpet!
Did I mention that the tea is "make-believe" tea? What a fun little party- it is just that Anna does not want Owen to play with her because he knocks the dishes all over the floor and tries to eat them. Here Anna is trying to be a lady and a hostess and Owen comes along and thinks that it is a game of rugby!!

Sorry Janna!


So Mr. B, what do you think of sweet, little Sedgwick now? Did Janna tell you that he attacked her viciously simply for her presence in our home on Union Ave.... I think it is because she mentioned Seamus. Sorry Janna, I would put him to sleep if I could.

Submitted by Lydia. Nathan would never speak poorly of Sedgwick.

Wednesday, February 22, 2006

A Week Behind

I know that I usually blog at least 4 times a week for all to see what a fun filled life we have here on Union Avenue. Sometimes the time flies due to schedules and not being home too much. Sometimes all of the time in class and writing of papers leaves a full headache for a day or so due to the flashing of an LCD monitor in my face. Sorry folks.

I decided that I would ride my bike this week. I rode through Victorian Grand Rapids and accidentally hit a set of stairs and ripped it off of the building! Oops!

We had a snack over the Grand River and watched "icebergs", as Mrs. P called them, float on by.
Anna danced to the sounds of a player piano while we clapped and laughed.
Sadly, oh so sadly, Anna could no longer afford to pay the rent on the land on which her corrugated bungalow rested. We had to turn it over to the Grand Rapids recycling commission.

An exciting, and oh so sad week.

Tuesday, February 21, 2006

I promise that I will post soon.

But thou, O man of God, flee these things; and follow after righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, meekness. I Timothy 6.11

Tuesday, February 14, 2006

Monday, February 13, 2006

Cutest Shoes in the World

Thank you Emily. As many of you know we love shoes in this family! Lydia and I are actually getting new Birks for our four year anniversary next month.
We have a hard time with children's shoes though. They are hard on the feet and according to Pediatricians, they do not aide in the proper development of the foot. We would get Birks for the kids too but cannot justify $65 for kid's shoes.


The Vedra's gave us some help and we are well pleased. Lydia has ordered two pairs for Owen and have been looking for Anna as well.


There are many readers who are going to be having children soon or know of a pregnant couple. Maybe George would like a pair. (GIFT IDEA!!)


Pedipeds Shoes

Sunday, February 12, 2006

Kevin VanderSchel will be a PhD in a few years


A Valentine from a dear friend



And another one



*This post does not mean that I condone Roman Catholic Saint's days.

Saturday, February 11, 2006

OCD reflections

For some providential reason I was not required to work this evening. This came as a surprise to all of us- but we persevered. We took a little trip to the local mall (the one that does not require the use Xanax to endure an evening there). Purpose? Play, return an item, and visit our favorite toy store: Learning Express.
As you can see, Lydia is ecstatic. She refers to these trips as outings- that may explain a stay-at-home mom's excitement for some time out!

At Learning Express we began a new toy collection. We have Little People coming out of our ears, Thomas the Tank Engine was too expensive for today's tastes (and Anna was not as interested as normal), but we have had our eyes on the Playmobil toys for a while. We thought that it was time. We purchased a shepherd and two sheep for Owen. They were reasonably priced and the best part according to one of us...they are GERMAN!
Anna got a new hat but for some reason she does not want to show it off. Modest little thing!

Here is Owen playing in the mall thing for children. Lydia and I both resolved from the earliest days of our dating that if we ever married and had children they would NOT play in these things! We like clean and all things clean. Sorry, these do not fit the bill. (Exception: If you go to Woodlawn Mall at 2pm you are okay. The cleaning people scrub and disinfect until 2:15pm.)

Here is Anna playing. It seems that when ever we go we meet the same type of kids at these places: There is this kid, there is the one that is always being threatened by his non-disciplining mother, these girls, and her! The most annoying group are the ones that cannot read the sign that requires kids to be under 8 years of age!

We had a good time though. Nothing a little Purel and a scalding hot bath cannot fix!

Anna began reflecting on the disorder of this place and decided that it was time to go. We agreed that we it was getting time to leave but we thought that we should stay for a little longer.

Until Anna and Owen saw the ghost of a little black kid! We were terrified and headed home!

Thursday, February 09, 2006

10,000 Maniacs



I am not sure which one of you was the blessed one:

Someone out there was our 10,000th visit. It is amazing that a quaint Presbyterian family can be of interest to anyone on this side of the seventeenth century.

Monday, February 06, 2006

I guess it is normal?

Anna has been wanting to wear dresses more lately. When I say more; I mean all the time. Really, she does not want to take them off. If one comes off she wants a new one on.
Our house is way too cold for a little girl to be running around barefoot AND with a dress.

Our compromise is that she can wear the dresses, but she has to wear her clothes underneath them. That works.

Her PJs are also covered with a lovely little dress. To bed we allow her to wear the ones that are too short for her to wear normally.
Is this normal? Is this family normal?

Friday, February 03, 2006

A little Owen thought

He may be a bit drooly:
But we think that he is a keeper!

Thursday, February 02, 2006

Phil and Calvin

It's Groundhog Day. Here is the story:

It was 1997 and four Calvin students headed off to Indiana, Pennsylvania to visit a friend.
Adam Vedra, Doug Appicella, Holly Roth, and me- the four of us off to see Shawn Anderson who was studying music and world religion at the local university.

Doug and Adam were from Naperville, Illinois and had never been to Pennsylvania (as far as I know). Doug remembered that that peculiar little town of Punxsutawney rested in the Western hills close to Indiana University.

We got into our cars and headed North. We had Doug's fancy Z-28 with leather interior, booming system, and girl appeal. We also had my little four cylinder Subaru Legacy. (I was the one that got the speeding ticket though!)

We got into the sleepy little town that only has excitement during the first week of February when they go through their animistic rituals of worshipping giant rodents while the rodent gives a forecast. They have been doing this here for 120 years- it literally marks ALL that this town is and ever will be.

As we arrived in the town I noticed some of the architecture. Typical small town PA. Big old Victorian homes that once towered over the streets. Old money that never became new. A lot of these homes and buildings now are in need of fresh paint and current landscaping. Dusty, old, and from an era that they thought would never end.

We looked for signs of this groundhog. We were quite sure that the thing lived in this town somewhere. We checked out the local library in search for the famed rodent. No sign of him (or of people that use the old library). We were given a clue by a town matriarch and we headed off to the town center which is nothing more than a typical city park. Benches, gazebo, old oak trees, and placards that mark the cities monumentous events. But one thing was different in this little town- there is a home erected in the center; not an old home as in Central Park, but an animal home. Something that you would see in a petting zoo. A tacky, rickety, old home.

The famed Phil lives here. Tax payers in that town have been paying a type of animal welfare for the past 120 years so that this one old woodchuck (and yes, they believe that he is 120 years old, but 111 when we visited.) can live in quiet fame 364 days a year; but in reverential fame for one day. This is Phil. We were able to get a look at Phil that day. The feeling was something like when you are in a place where famous people live and you catch a glimpse of them from a distance. You know that they remain unapproachable due to such fame, but you saw them.

Oprah in Chicago, Trump in New York, Leno in Los Angeles, Phil in Punxsutawney. We had witnessed fame.

In an anti-climactic fashion we decided that there was not much else to do in the sleepy town. We, being interested in religion in general, decided to go visit some of the local churches to see what they looked like.
We went to one that normally would not have interested us. It was not Punxsutawney Uber-Reformed-Presbyterian Church, but it was Saint So-and-So Church of the What's it Called. The name was bizarre. It was nothing that we had ever heard before. Something different than what we knew. We decided to go there.

As we entered we realized that this was just another Catholic Church. It was of some Italian order and that was why we did not recognize the name. It was typical inside though.
We entered. Giant marble bowl of water with which to cleanse your forehead. Giant shrine of the virgin with flowers and wafting candle scent below her. Icons all around.

There was one woman there and we thought that we should say hello to her. Shawn was filled with passion or compassion....okay....passion, as a ex-Roman Catholic he found that it would be ideal to speak to her about his new found freedom in Christ.
We approach.
She says "hi".
We say "hi".
"Great weather we are having", one of us say in an attempt to break ice as well as age and cultural barriers.
She agrees that the weather is really nice, "Phil has been really good to us this year, huh?"

[Shock and amazement compass us.]

"Did you say, Phil?"

"Yes, Phil has been really good to us this year, the weather has been great."

(Silence)

(Silence)

"Praise Phil!" Shawn exclaimed in a Pentecostally obnoxious voice, "Praise Phil!"

[We begin to chuckle.]

"Praise Phil" she said in agreement.

End of conversation.

We told the woman to have a nice day. As we got back into the parking lot of that little Italian church we realized that we had not only witnessed a woman praising a rodent for bene-climate weather, she also did not realize that we mocked her for her unusual faith.

It is ground hog day, nine years after that story was lived in the lives of young students. Nine years have passed, but the fact remains that I will never forget that moment. Never again will I look upon this event in my glorious home state as something that is fun, or entertaining, or jovial. I will forever look on this day with amazement. Amazement of the noetic effects of sin and amazement that people can get so serious about something so odd.

Today on the ride to class (yep, still in school.) I heard the mayor of Punxsutawney exclaim that Phil had seen his shadow. Six more weeks of winter is the prediction of this rodent.

In the background you can hear people yelling, "no!" "boo!"

I wondered about our little Italian grandma today. I wondered if yesterday she was in her spot in that little church praying that the lords of heaven and earth and sea and wind give Phil wisdom. Did she pray for the guidance of the woodchuck today? Did she say, "praise Phil" or was she disappointed that her god had let her down?