



A glimpse into the home of a family attempting to live a well-thought-out life.
We pulled up to the Malysa's house and were warmly welcomed by Irma who was putting the finishing touches on the day's gardening. She had filled the yard waste bag and confidently placed it at the side of the road without a tag. She informed us that she and the man who picks up the yard waste "had an agreement". A few hours later we dragged the untagged brown bag back into the garage- I guess that the agreement did not hold for this week.
Opa Lawrence was happy to see Owen. Owen was quite content with biting his nose, pinching his face, and loving him in his own pre-toddler boy way.
Oma was happy to see her little Anna as well. Oma has been teaching her all of the fine skills that are required to be a Malysa lady. Anna loves her Oma very much.
Owen was quite impressed with Tante Heidi as well as Peaches the bird that they have owned for 15 years. Peaches says "Hi pretty" to which everyone replies, "Hi pretty." At Owen's age Anna was terrified of Peaches.
Irma made a fine European Goulosh. Not that noodley-beany-meaty-tomato pastey thing that we Americans are used to; but a fine array of beef with egg noodles and potatoes. It is garlic and onion filled goodness. Owen ate SO MUCH of it!
Owen also got to learn what Malysa women do- they clean EVERYTHING! Owen's face was cleaned with Cetaphil and warm water- a bucket full.
We thought that it was going to rain so we did not go to the zoo that day. We went to a park and enjoyed a nice walk around a scenic pond. We fed the ducks and geese, dodged their waste, and saw many baby ducks and goslings.
We also played on the swings. This is a great picture of all of the Malysa's and the grandchildren on the swings together.
We had a really great time together. You will see how our trip to Brookfield went later. Good times.
As we made our way towards Chicago the excitment was more than we could handle. I had an uber-excited grin the entire ride while the children slept soundly in their law enforced harnesses.
We had a great time and there are more pictures to come. There may even be a gnome story in here for those of you who are into that sort of thing.

She can be very helpful with Owen.
Notice Owen's shirt- it is not going too well; but it is a good start. With lots of love and some discipline she is going to develop into a great, big sister!

The semester ended officially this date at 12:57 Post Meridian when I hit send on the Yahoo! account to zip my final three projects over to the seminary.
This morning we went to Pooh's Corner to look for a couple of children's books that we want to get. One that I want is called The Wright 3 by Blue Balliet. It is on my summer reading list once my semester is finished. It is about three teens who crack the mystery in the windows of the Robie House, one of Frank Lloyd Wright's greatest houses. The book is fiction, but I love the idea of introducing teens to art history.
My parents phone has been disconnected for a couple of days. We talk at least three times a week on the phone and chit~chat about what has been going on. Knowing this, my mom sends me this email about a conversation that my dad had with the phone company concerning why they did not show up. Here is a synopsis. This is classic:
Brian Anderson of Poor Man's Blog and Abdicating Sanity and long time friend and brother turns 27 years old on Sunday, April 23rd. Brian is a friend from my highschool days and has been a friend to me and my family as adults as well.
I have heard the statement before, "We are expecting to hear from you and Lydia any day now.."
We know what that means. So, as has been expected here is the news: Life On Union Avenue is about to expand. We are expecting a new member to the Union Avenue family! Sorry we had to use the blog to tell everyone, but this way you all hear at once...
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We have a robin nest in one of our cherry trees! Yeah! There are babies on the way and Life On Union Avenue is expanding. We are happy to host the mother and her young!

We have our morning coffee and devotions from our sun-room every morning. It is a nice view to watch the sun shine through the windows while we wake-up. Spring is especially nice because you can see all of the flowers come up and begin to open. There are a few different times in the year when the color is so great and vibrant. Come over for devotions and a cup of coffee some morning- it is a great way to start the day.
For a fee she will make you one as well. Oh...I get a finders fee as well!
Eventually the hat was removed and he fell asleep. Do not think that it allowed for a peaceful lunch... he awoke seconds before the food arrived.
We ate outside since the place is always so packed that you have to wait in line. The lines are always tight and you have to squeeze next to people that you do not necessarily want to be breathing down your neck. One good thing though, as a blog reader you would love it because you always get to hear someone else's business whether you want to or not. It is like a real-life blog standing in that line. I rarely have the guts to comment though...you cannot be anonymous!
The other thing that was great about today is that Owen's Anterior-Incisors number eight and nine came in. That makes for four teeth. Teeth look funny on a baby at first.
Here is the only way that we can get him to show off the teeth. We hold him upside down and we tickle him until his mouth opens. This shot was too gross with all of the saliva and the nostrils showing. I cut out the mouth so that you could see his great little teeth.
The other thing that we did today is watch Anna garden. She thinks that gardening consists of standing around with a rake and commenting on the flowers that have already bloomed. She also thinks that talking to the statuary is part of the assignment as well. If she only knew the joys that gardening can bring other than talking to concrete children.
Here she is checking out her New Balance shoes. Lyd bought these so that she can wear them on walks. I am not sure why she is so obsessed with them. We try to get her to wear the clogs..but she insists on these little running shoes. I think that she is being influenced by outside sources. We don't wear running shoes.
Sorry no poll today!
As most of you know I have two weddings scheduled for May 27, 2006. This is very difficult for me since I want to attend both of them very much. One is my cousin, who I love a lot and would love to enjoy this day with her. The other is my friends, Steve and Janna, here in Grand Rapids. They are members of my church and we are really good friends.
Today I was doing some gardening along the driveway. I was carefully trimming one of my roses when I heard this huge swooshing noise above my head. I looked up and it was a turkey flying out of the old Oak of my neighbors! It flew across the street into the trees behind Saint Joseph's Seminary, but when I went to find it I no longer saw it.
I am not sure how these things occur, but Anna has placed the idea into her head that duct tape is an appropriate wound care product. Yesterday she wanted a piece of duct tape around her 'ouch' and I thought that it was pretty funny since my father always used duct tape as the choice item to promote sanitation and healing of wounds related to the opening of the skin.
At my work we have a room where patients have to sleep sometimes called a Think Tank. This room is the classic "padded room" minus the padded walls and other cliche' associations with psychiatric care.





